Why are my feelings pushed aside? Like they don't matter, like they don't count?
I was talking to Jim today and I was upset, and I was crying. He said to me, don't be upset. Don't cry. He said it wasn't worth being upset about it.
I wanted to tell him to fuck himself. If I am upset I will BE upset. If I am upset I will cry. I don't care if you think I get upset too much. I dont care that you think its silly to cry over some things. That's me.
Why should I always have to be strong? I'm not strong. I don't want to hold my feelings in. When my mother would hit me I would try so hard not to cry. More often than not it would make her more angry, so I figured if I didn't cry maybe she wouldn't hit me as hard, or as often. I also figured that if I didn't cry she would think I didn't care.
I don't know. I am going to come back on later tonight when I am not so angry and upset.