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Sexy Saturday

Do you find porn degrading? Is there a limit for which porn is acceptable? For example, would you think less of a partner who had a few Maxims as opposed to a lovingly tended humongous video and magazine library? What's the big deal about looking at porn, anyways? Do I find porn degrading? It's interesting, I have always shied away from sex issues. I don't really talk about "it" a lot. Not like my dear friend Katy who has since left Dland, who regularly talked about pleasuring herself. A funny thing happened though. This week we put out a request for reviewers, and when people want to review for Diary Reviews they have to review my site. Well, I had some comments about all the memes I do. Which is fine, I don't care, because it's my diary. Besides, it's not like I do every meme out there. I pick and choose based on topics and what memes I like. On the weekends I do more, but I have more free time. Besides, it gets me thinking (and writing) about things I don't normally. So today I saw the one about porn. And I almost did not do it. But why pretend like sex is not part of my life? Like I don't think about it? Or better yet, engage in sexual activity...So back to the prompt

I think it depends on the kind. I look at porn, and it's pretty tame, and I say that because I get some nasty spam. I never really thought about a "limit" before. I download stuff off of Kazaa, and while my collection is not anywhere near the size of my MP3 collection, I do like variety. I must admit, I am pretty unfair to Jim. I really don't like the idea of him looking at porn. I think, however, this is because I don't look at pics or whatever of guys. So to know that he is looking at girls would make me feel insecure. Although, there have been occasions where we look at porn together. That was fun. As far as the "big deal" of looking at porn? Well, I don't get it, but I definitely feel it. If I didn't think it was a big deal, I would have talked about it before. I think it's sad that it's so more acceptable for guys than for girls. I also don't understand why it's really anyone's business. Why do you care what I do behind my bedroom door? If I am not hurting anyone, then go away....I promise I will leave you alone in return.

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