Perhaps I am not a very nice person. I was sitting at the bar, totally analyzing this girl, and I realized that I am not very nice to girls. Then I started thinking, would I be nice if I didn't know my friend Deana, and Jim's friend Chris just started dating her? I never like women that I have no choice as to whether they are in my circles. I am always really critical of any women friends my boyfriends have had. I am usually pretty critical of the friends of my friends.
I wonder why that is...
Is it some sort of insecurity? If I felt more confident about myself would I scrutinize others less?